Have you ever been going along everything is going well – work is good, workouts are happening and fun, food is working well – then out of nowhere something happens that throws everything out of kilter. I can often hear the “THWACK” when my clients talk about what has been happening. It is like a brick wall popped up and before you can see it you walk (or run) right into it. Your head is spinning and, often, you are trying to figure out what just happened and where it came from. That wall could be an illness or injury of your own, the illness or injury of someone else, a job loss, a vacation (yes, even good things can cause a brick wall to appear), school starting or ending. . . anything that causes the routine that has been working for you to get thrown off.
Once we determine what the issue is then we go into “firefighting mode” to fix it or decide how we are going to deal with it long term. Then, we start dealing. During this time, some or all of those things we were doing that made us feel so good (working out, eating well, self-care) may fall by the way-side. We look up one day and realize “when was the last time I worked out?” Or, “why am I leaving a drive thru with a large burger, humongous fries, and a soda that I have to hold between my legs because it won’t fit in the cup holder?”
During these times it is important to realize that all is not lost. Those habits you had established are still there, and you can get back into them. You have done it before, you can do it again. You may have to do it differently this time depending on why that wall appeared, but you can do it.
We hear it a lot. . .if you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t take care of others. It is so true. Eating right and exercising are both ways of taking care of ourselves. Next time that wall appears, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and decide on one thing you can do to take care of yourself. It could be starting to pack a snack each day to have with you. Or, asking someone to help with a task such as grocery shopping. Or, asking a friend to take a walk with you or going for a walk by yourself rather than sitting in front of the TV after dinner. The small things add up. Starting with something small will build your confidence you can get back on track. Once that one thing is working, pick something else. Before you know it, you’ll be back on track.
Those walls are part of life. Starting small allows you to know that when that next wall appears, you’ll be ready to deal with it.

